This is why it is advisable for couples or “couples to be” not to overstep their boundary when displaying love as the gossips, the broken hearted and perhaps those who mean well will term such guy as a slow poke person.
Going straight to the business of the day, let’s take a brief look on things guys do that show ladies are in control of their life.
1. Becoming her errand boy/puppet
When men were boys, ladies used me as their puppet by sending me to buy food, fetch water and others. My friends made jest of me, calling me lover boy and reported me to my parents that I am under chioma’s spell. grin
2. Suffering and Smiling Attitude
Some ladies are in the habit of abusing guys for no reason most especially if he is broke or too dumb to express his emotion. If a guy who used to be affluent and jovial becomes broke, ladies will ridicule and ruin his reputation in public as people will believe that his destiny has been nailed on a tree by her.
3. Emptying his account or pocket for her
I hate it when guys in their right senses empty their account for ladies to make Brazilian hair, buy expensive phones and other worthless purposes albeit him begging for N50 recharge card, garri, etc. wink cheesy
4. She eats assorted meals while he drinks water during date
Wonders shall never end as some guys exhibit pretence during date by drinking pure water while the lady he is asking out eats all sort of assorted meals. No doubt if this act continues, people will ask if the guy is mentally sound.
5. Helping her to attain good grade in school while he is on probation
This act is common in school where shallow minded guys act like machos by helping ladies to write test and assignment at the detriment of their success. This is perhaps one of the reasons why ladies are getting good jobs after school meanwhile guys with poor grades are struggling to get common cement lifting jobs. grin grin
6. Washing her under wears
I pity the life of some guys who believe that this act is out of love because apart from the fact that his image will be tarnished, those around will see him as a retaarded individual.
7. Loosing her hair regularly
Some guys are fun of this act which on regular occasion will attract insult from the society as people will advice such guys to visit MFM for deliverance. grin grin
8. Neglecting football match in order to satisfy her regularly
I have seen a die-hard football fan who became a “hommie” during live matches because his girlfriend told him to choose between football and her.
What amuses me is that this guy always satisfy her in terms of attention, care, money, etc but when a match is about to commence, this is when she starts nagging about him not respecting her feelings.