Just because you are the right age does not automatically mean you can get a sugar. You will also need to:
Be good in bed. This is the most important thing.
Able to romance her and make her feel young again
Available especially in the evenings and weekends
Willing to travel and accompany her on chama meetings, getaways etc.
Discreet as they hold sensitive positions and don’t want embarrassments.
Sharp dresser or eye candy is a plus
Not a player or one with girlfriend or baby mama drama